Getting Soaked: Watersports 101

Ever had a golden shower?

Well, if not, then let me provide you a little information about piss play, otherwise know as Urophilia, which means receiving erotic pleasure from consuming, bathing, pissing on or watching someone piss.

It's water sports my dear! And we are definitely not talking about the Summer Olympics here!

So, maybe the thought of some dude pissing on you is hot, however you have a little nervousness and possibly fear about finding a way to fulfill your fantasy. Do not fret! I can give you a little run down of what to do and not to do.

Participating in piss play is a very common form of play between men, so if you feel you are alone, please rethink this. It can be very sexy and be a bonding experience between lovers while taking a shower or it can just be fun to get out and be pissed on by a group of men at a piss party. Oh yes, there are weekly events in some cities and even weekend long piss festivals. More about that in a bit.

So what is the turn on. I think it can be several things. Here is a few I can offer.

1. Pheromones: Urine scent from another man can trigger a erotic reaction.

2. Power Play: Feeling defiled or dominated over. (top, bottom, pisser, getting pissed on)

3. Warmth: Being pissed feels warm, it is a recollection of being in a warm bath, creating a tingly warm feeling on the body, or when you piss on yourself wearing clothing feels comforting and sensual.

4. Sexy: To take in a another person's piss (orally, anally, or just on the body) is like receiving ejaculate!

So, my advice to newbies to the piss scene is to find someone you can trust and feel comfortable with to start off with. Maybe a friend or even lover who will consent to piss play, there is nothing quite shocking like someone pissing on without you asking. Start off in a shower, maybe even piss on yourself in a bathtub see how it feels. It is okay to experiment. I just remind you to do it with someone you feel like you can explore with!

Here are other things to remember:

1. Even though it is called a golden showers, it is much nicer if the stream of piss is clear. Drinking lots of water can give you a clear and less pungent stream.

2. Coffee, asparagus, vitamins and garlic are going to probably give you a more of a pungent stream of piss, probably things you would want to stay away from if you are planning to enjoy some piss play.

3. Pineapples, strawberries, some artificial sweeteners can give your piss a sweeter smell and taste!

4. Recent studies show that urine isn’t completely bacteria and “germ”-free, however, urine has been shown to have antibacterial and antiviral properties. So a little piss won't kill you if you get it on your body or drink it.

5. Be patient, some guys get pee shy, so just play when the feeling is right (I find tanking up with lots of water will help with that)

6. Have fun. Make it Sexy.

7. The Hanky Code: if you wear a yellow handkerchief on the right you love to be a piss receiver and if you wear it on the left you are a piss giver. Or just wear em on both sides!

Maybe at this point you have tried it a couple of times and have decided you want to meet up with other piss players, there are a couple of sites I would hit if you want community around piss play. I would start off with fetlife.com or waterboys.com.

There are tons of fetish videos on xtube.com and dickwadd.com.

Various sex clubs around the United States and beyond offer some piss play parties monthly, even weekly. There is a Gold Shower Buddies event every second Wednesday of the month at Blow Buddies in San Francisco, Wet Wednesdays at Slammer in Los Angeles. There are so many more cities that host water sports parties.

However, if you are really serious and want to attend a whole weekend of urine filled fun. Check out the Wet n' Hot event that takes place in Palm Springs, CA in the summertime.

If you are a newbie or a pro, piss play can be fun, sexy and safe! So have fun!

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