How I taught a 50 year old man to "toss a salad"!

So, just recently I had a man call me up to set up a session. At the age of 49 he had come out of the closet as a gay man. He was not really experienced with sex at all (male or female)!

He was feeling really insecure about the things people do in bed and was really especially curious about "rimming"!

So if anyone out there doesn't know what rimming is, let me give you a simple run down.

Anilingus is the oral and anal sex act that involves a person stimulating the anus of another by using the mouth, including lips, tongue, or teeth. Otherwise known as "rimming" or "rim job".

So of course I accepted the challenge.

I talked to him about my experiences with rimming. I told him the most important things to remember is that hygiene is important. So its perfectly okay to get your potential partner to jump in the shower or catch him after he has his booty all nice and clean. Lots of bacteria can be transmitted if it is not properly clean. Syphilis, gonorrhea of the throat or hepatitis A can happen as well. So its perfectly fine to ask your potential face squatter a little of his sexual history and to be honest about STI's.

Also, being clean can help you feel relaxed and confident to receive!

Another thing I mentioned is to warm up the area, its perfectly fine to do some light external touch, a sort of "rosebud massage" with your fingers, just to make it real hungry. I love just touching it softly and blowing on it to get it all worked up. Sometimes just lightly grazing my bearded chin next to a man's asshole can make him squirm.

Yeah, I mentioned to him that there are all different kinds of ass, hairy, smooth, big and small. Just be willing to test out plenty of them! Go slow, ask your partner questions like, "How does that feel?" or "Do you like that?', if he is moaning and groaning you are doing something right?

So my I told my 50 year old student we were going to practice! Yes.. Practice!! I pulled out two giant sized peaches I got from Whole Foods, (expensive and big) but worth it!

We pulled out the little stem from the peach and I began to show him how I rim an asshole, I started slow, started to lick around everywhere and then darted my tongue in and out of the middle. I had him practice in front of me, I also invited him to make some noise, to turn the guy on, to go back in forth with slow, then fast, deeper then up to the surface. I said it is perfectly fine to work the rosebud with the tongue and then work your way down to the taint (otherwise known as the "snack bar") and even work the balls with your mouth. The whole area is filled with nerves and it feels real juicy to explore.

So, guess what 2 weeks later my 50 year old student came in and said he finally de-viriginized his tongue and gave a rim session to a lucky friend he met at the library! (note to self, get a library card). He said that not only he got to rim this man and enjoyed it so much, he ended up getting rimmed himself and said he really doesn't know what he likes better.

I told him to keep practicing!

Another satisfied student!

Want more information about Rimming? Or just information about sex. Then drop me a line!

JoJo "Bear" DeRodrigo, Somatic Sex Coach at www.metamorphicembodiment

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